LOVE

 How many of you have fallen in love with a wrong person? Many of us have. We may love that person from the bottom of our heart. But we are not sure if the other person loves us the same way. I am gonna write about love.Everyone has fallen in love once. If you haven't I appreciate you. But I prefer to learn from my experiences. It is okay to fall in love with a toxic person. Because next time your past will warn you. Above all I think we all have a time to fall in love. Fall in love when your mature enough. Fall in love when you are sure that it won't affect important things you are doing. Fall in love if you are sure it won't hurt people around you.

Love is dangerous. When we are in love we are someone else. Someone we don't know. We are blind when we are in love. I was in love...twice. One was toxic and one was not. The toxic one was the one which hurt me a lot. What hurts more than breakup? When a person you love play with your feelings. We are more likely to be blind in a toxic relation. Why? because that person just fills you with love and one day BOOM! they leave you. A real one is a good one. It makes you feel good about yourself. Boosts your confidence. Encourages you to focus on your works. I had a real one and I ended it. Why? I wasn't mature enough to fall in love. I don't think that this is the time for me to fall in love. I never hurt people around me. Most my friends, my parents knew it. Now you all will be thinking if my parents were fine with it, then why wasn't I. What matters is what I think. 

I wasn't blind when I was in love. I can proudly say that anywhere💛. I focused on what I wanted do it, what I wanted to become. It is all because I had parents who were always proud of me. They were open to me and I was too. Their love is the only pure love I have seen all these years.Now this may not be the age to talk about love because I have a long way to go. I just got started and I have so much to experience. I would suggest everyone to stay in your limits. Always think when you are about to do something.

Now this is the point "what matters is what you think." If you have read till here, you have that one person in your mind. Don't you? It maybe real or toxic. I think the three things I mentioned in the first paragraph are the important things that you should keep in your mind if you are gonna be in a relation. If you are in a relation that you are not interested, it is not too late. Never ever hurt people because of something you did. Understand yourself, be a matured teen and think before you take a decision."Teenage" is the age to explore, it is also the age to stay in your limit. It is the age to make mistakes, it is also the age to learn from those mistakes.

It is not easy. I will give you a small tip. First know yourself. Listen to your conscience.Understand the consequences and always ask yourself three questions.Will I hurt anyone? Am I mature enough? Will I focus on my work/studies. Before you think you are ready to know someone else. Make sure you know yourself well. Stay home. Stay safe. Stay happy.

A big thank you to a strong lady with a lot of wonderful thoughts and also my wonderful friend Anusree for suggesting me this topic💓. I may not have reached the point you wanted me to but still I tried😏🙈