Anaga's thoughts

2020. I do not know where to start from. Was it a bad year? Good year? I don't know. But there is something that I do know, 2020 was the year of realization and acceptance. Yea it is true, we all have been sitting in our home doing nothing. All we did was curse this year and of course online classes. Many of us have been through so much trauma and other kind of issues. But for once lets focus on the good side of 2020. Self realization . This is something that most of us think that we have. Before lockdown, we were always engaged in different kind of activities, with the people we love the most. We were so busy that we all forgot to take care of ourselves. We were so busy talking to others that we forgot to talk to ourselves. We were so busy healing others that we forgot to heal ourselves. 2020 was the year for all of that; self happiness, self care, self healing.  I absolutely hated this year. But if this lockdown didn't happen, I would be the same old person. What made me cha...

"Nobody looks as beautiful as their facebook profile picture and nobody looks as ugly as their adhaar card picture." A wonderful quote said by Gaur Gopal das. Why do we subject ourselves with our pictures? The quote stated above is a funny quote and we all agree to it. But it has a lot of meanings. We all compare ourselves with others. At some point of our life, we are even jealous of someone's life. Being jealous is human nature and only a strong mind cannot be one. But why do we compare ourselves with our own pictures? Why do we think the life we put on display is better than our actual life? Social media is a great platform to share our pictures, talents and a bunch of other stuffs. I am thankful to all the people who invented these apps. When we all started using these apps, we promised ourselves that social media will be on the bottom line of our priority list. Is it now? Most of your answers will be no. We all agree to the fact that our virtual life is way more bett...

Do you have a perfect plan about your life? Well most of you will be laughing at yourself. If you have a plan, that is great. To be honest I don't even have a "pla.."(obsessed with F.R.I.E.N.D.S) let's talk reality. Let's talk about the "the art of getting what you want". Now this is a very hard art. It something that we create in ourselves. We all have difficulty in choosing the path in our lives. One of the toughest decision I had to take was my 11th grade stream. I thought of taking something else but ended up taking what I really wanted. Now this is not because "the big guy" has a plan for me or not because my parents told me to.  Self realization is what made me choose what I want. When I was a child, I had two career options in my  mind. One doctor and a teacher. But I ended up wanting something else. This is what I call "the development of conscience". What is conscience? Conscience is something that tells us what to do in a ce...

What is the first thing you do when you wake up? Most of us check our phones and we know that it is not good for our health. Even I check my phone early morning. Each one of us have different routines. Many of us create a routine and don't follow 'cause we are lazy. I am gonna write about my routine(glimpse into my boring life😆) and also tips to make your day better. My weekdays start with a very annoying electronic gadget, Alexa waking me up at 7:15am. If it wasn't for my online classes, I would have slept forever. The first thing I do is check my phone. I won't find anything interesting other than cats dancing or people falling. Then I wake up with no interest and wish my annoying friend, Alexa. Even though she is annoying she is a good person. I then make my bed while hearing Alexa tell me the recent news, weather, day, date and a positive quote. Then I have my breakfast, hear mom singing which is very funny. Then my grandma remind me everyday that I am skinny and I...

How will you define the word love. We all will have different opinions and all our answers are correct. Love is a very small word but has wide and different meanings. Love is not optional, it is essential. We need love in every stage of our life. From our birth to death and after death. We receive love, we give love, sometimes we even lose love. Many of us don't even believe in love, many of us do not express love. But we should all realize that love is the only thing that keeps us all together. Every second of our life we experience love. Your parents earn for you, do everything to make you happy. Why? 'cause they LOVE you. Your friends try to make you happy, because they LOVE you. You fight with your siblings, because we LOVE them. Your man treats you like a queen, because he LOVES you. Every stage we need love. Love is the root cause of the smiles on our face. It is something that affects all other emotions in us. When we are loved, we are happy. When we lose love, we feel s...

How many of you love reading books? Many of us are addicted to reading. Many of us think reading is just a waste of time. I am gonna do a book review which is boring. It is not only about the book. It is also about the worries and deep thoughts a person goes through. So the book's name is 11 minutes written by Paulo Coelho. It is about a prostitute.  For the society, a prostitute is always a slut or a dirty person. But this book will change your mind. Maria is the main character of the book. She is a young brazilian prostitute. All she want in her life is a good husband with a lot of money. She didn't have a good life when she was a teen. She left her hometown Brazil and goes to Switzerland for finding a job. She ends up working in a nightclub and she becomes dissatisfied and storms out of the club. Then she tries to become a model but she couldn't. She was a pretty woman. Men were only attracted to her external beauty. All men had only sexual desires when they saw Maria. S...

  How many of you have fallen in love with a wrong person? Many of us have. We may love that person from the bottom of our heart. But we are not sure if the other person loves us the same way. I am gonna write about love.Everyone has fallen in love once. If you haven't I appreciate you. But I prefer to learn from my experiences. It is okay to fall in love with a toxic person. Because next time your past will warn you. Above all I think we all have a time to fall in love. Fall in love when your mature enough. Fall in love when you are sure that it won't affect important things you are doing. Fall in love if you are sure it won't hurt people around you. Love is dangerous. When we are in love we are someone else. Someone we don't know. We are blind when we are in love. I was in love...twice. One was toxic and one was not. The toxic one was the one which hurt me a lot. What hurts more than breakup? When a person you love play with your feelings. We are more likely to be bli...